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According to Dr. Sam Vaknin, a worldwide respected and leading authority and researcher on Narcissistic behaviors and Narcissists, having compiled the world's largest and most detailed data base, includes the following findings in brief summery. Not written here as verbatim. Also, included here by Universal Intelligence, are observed patterns, experiences and behavior expressions of individuals having traits as those described.


Narcissists lack empathy. ​In the first stage they will idealize their "supply" (i.e. partner, spouse, girlfriend, etc.) They will find out what you want, your weaknesses, and act in manners that secure you, by conveying abundant reassurances and praises to the areas of your vulnerability and needs. He will convince you he is all you want. He is false. Both the overt and covert narcissist need a continuous supply of attention, "narcissistic supply" from their spouse, partner, girlfriend, etc. If the narcissist senses the supply is no longer sufficient or worthwhile, he begins the second stage, devalue, in other words the praise and high loving attention given to you is reversed, stopped, and replaced with cold negatively. Once he ceases to have any need for you, and you are of no value, he proceeds to the third stage, discard, and he "dumps" his partner without a care, coldly, quickly, without explanation, and walks away as if you never existed and seeks another source of supply. Usually the next source has already been secured, and the cycle will begin again with the new source of supply. 

This emotional abuse leaves the victim shattered, alone, confused, blamed and emotionally devastated. In the discard phase the victim feels emotionally raped, mind screwed and heart murdered. The trauma is deep and extremely difficult.

According to an excerpt from Wikipedia from a 2012 book on power-hungry narcissists, it suggest that narcissists typically display most and sometimes all of the following traits, here are a few:

  • Problems in sustaining satisfying relationships.
  • Detesting those who do not admire them (narcissistic abuse).
  • Using other people without considering the cost of doing so.
  • Difficulty with empathy.
  • Hypersensitivity to any insults or imagined insults.
  • Vulnerability to shame rather than guilt.
  • Flattery towards people who admire and affirm them (narcissistic supply).
  • Pretending to be more important than they really are.
  • Claiming to be an "expert" at many things.
  • Inability to view the world from the perspective of other people.
  • Denial of remorse and gratitude.


There is now more attention being given to the awareness of this emotional abuse than even in the recent past. It is so devastating and much more pervasive than thought to be only a few years ago according to experts in the field.

Universal Intelligence has the compassion and empathy to understand what you're going through and help reduce the pain, loss and confusion. Please call and don't go through this alone, the hurt is deep, debilitating, and we know and care.

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Narcissist Relationship Cycle: Idealize, Devalue, Discard. The overt and covert narcissist have the same mentalities but their behaviors are carried out differently. Overt, with openly seen behaviors, and covert, with secretive, hidden, more stealth, styles. There are sub-types to the overt and covert narcissist.  

Pain Relief and Management

Hypnosis is recognized as a highly effective modality by leading worldwide medical institutions as having significant and lasting effects in multiple areas of the mind/body response. The American Psychological Association report findings, "...Hypnosis is a set of techniques designed to enhance concentration, minimize one's usual distractions and heighten responsiveness to suggestions to alter one's thoughts, feelings, behavior or physioloogical state...pain relief being one of the most researched areas...concluded that hypnotic techniques for the relief of acute pain (an outcome of tissue damage) are superior to standard care, and often better than other recognized treatments for pain...75% of clinical and experimental participants with different types of pain obtained substantial pain relief from hypnotic techniques..." Hypnosis is highly recognized as an effective modality by the AMA, British Medical Association, National Institute of Clinical Excellence, the National Institute of Health (NIH), to mention only a few. Clinical hypnosis is safe and effective.

Emotional Freedom Techniques are another modality that has been proven to be highly effective in relieving/eliminating/reducing pain, physically and emotionally. Often achieving results in only a few sessions, sometimes one. EFT is safe and effective.

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